Abro Unblisted: withdrawal internal pressure: What do they think of my sudden withdrawal? external behavior: Conversation bounces off of you like pebbles. You keep making motions like you’re about to leave and probably look like you need to vomit. act: Acknowledge outloud that you’re having a reaction. Promise to update those around you when you’ve [...]
Miko: anxious behavior internal pressure: What do they think about my anxious behavior? external behavior: Overly watchful for indications from others that they notice that you’re anxious. act: Ask others, directly, if they’ve noticed your anxious behavior. Be specific, down to the exact twitches you’ve had. They may not have noticed at all, or may [...]
Greejis: confidence Internal pressure: What do they think about my confidence levels? external behavior: Ask question to clarify what people think and you won’t need confidence to act – you’ll have information. Check out the Poop Squad T Shirt Series Here’s Ben in a Greejis shirt – notice the warning sign to all those who [...]
Here’s the amazing Mark Brown modeling Eeging: Eeging: needy internal pressure: What do they think about my need for attention? external pressure: Hesitation sharing stories that cast you in a good light, hesitation in talking to people you’re attracted to. act: Acknowledge your need for attention in some way. This will shake people up and [...]
Gobro: Helpfulness internal pressure: What do they think about my levels of helpfulness? external behavior: A cycle of petty meanness and snapping at those who seek your help and then feelings of guilt that cause you to reach out to try and help them again. act: explain why you’re helping and what the help means [...]
Crindolin: indecision internal pressure: What do they think about my life decisions? external behavior: You’re putting off decision making by asking everyone for input. Constant articulation of the dilemma with no movement towards resolution. act: Acknowledge that the answer is inside of you. Take a walk and think your way to the answer. Sit down [...]